A person’s age is arguably the
stage of life where peer pressure is most pronounced which in turn pushes a
person to do things they wouldn’t have otherwise done like trying drugs etc.,
or risk exposing themselves to other uncertain behaviors. Such actions can have
severe adverse effects on their future consequences such as addiction, illegal
activity, and loss of opportunities that are likely to alter their life’s
trajectory in its entirety. Therefore, it becomes crucial to learn how peer
pressure affects the behavior of young people in particular, especially where
the desire to be one among the crowd seems more tempting than anything else. By
understanding this, we can prevent the negative effects of adopting the
mentality of doing anything for the sake of acceptance.
The other type of
peer pressure that most teenagers experience is the feeling of going through
the teenagers. It is a phase in life that every individual faces, and in most
cases, makes decisions that tend to transform their life completely. At this
age, the pre-frontal cortex is still not fully developed and is responsible for
reasoning, controlling urges, and developing self-control which makes teenagers
much more malleable. That weakness often encourages adolescent to do dangerous
things like consuming drugs, drinking alcohol, and even crimes to be accepted
by their mate. As stated in the article, “Tackling Peer Pressure” which was
published in The HoofBeat, a whopping 90% of teenagers have to deal with
peer pressure, and the effects are alarming: Stress has led to over 80% of
American teens trying cigarette smoking, more than 75% trying out alcohol and
as much as over 21% turning out to be recreational drug users.
The
possible aftermath of succumbing to peer pressure can be extremely serious.
Many teenagers turn to drugs or get in trouble with the law, and in some cases,
these kids end up in jail, trying to escape their problems. These aftereffects
tend to crush future goals and opportunities. In addition, besides legal and
social consequences, the need to fit into the group also derives adverse
effects on the growth of the youths, which could eventually end up in broken
families, lowered intellectual development, raised stress levels, and increased
cases of depression. The aftermath tends to rush into young adulthood and
making it much harder for long-term overall well-being to take effect. In high
school, the effect of peer pressure is not often just a matter that will be
dealt with later; it can take an immediate toll. Peer pressure can drive
teenagers to harm themselves, skip class, and cheat on exams, thereby injuring
their personal lives and their education, as Children’s Health explains
in their article “Helping teens deal with peer pressure”. In short, peer
pressure has an immensely negative impact on a teenager's life and makes it
difficult for them to recover and eventually succeed.
For parents and guardians, the
stakes couldn’t be higher. Poor decisions made during adolescence can have
lasting effects on a teens’ future, family, and well-being. That’s why staying
involved, fostering open communication, and reinforcing strong values are
critical. By addressing issues early and equipping teens with the tools to
resist peer pressure, parents can help them avoid these pitfalls and grow into
responsible, independent adults.
You are probably
saying "What's the big deal, every teenager today has smoked or drunk at
least once, and this is nothing new." Whatever was more prevalent during
your adolescent years speaks by comparison about the stakes involved in today's
state of affairs. This is not simply matters concerning addiction, legal
troubles, and long-term health challenges; one cannot delegate these matters
into attitudes or beliefs. It is worth keeping in mind that such actions will
have consequences that far outweigh any temporary thrill or occasional feeling
of belonging. It must be admitted, however, that peer pressure is not always a
bad thing. Positive peer pressure exists, as in the kind of pressure that
motivates you to be your best self often without your realization. This type of
peer pressure came in the form of friends encouraging one another to achieve
their goals whether by excelling in studies, getting in good sports practice or
simply becoming better human beings. The surge from peer allegiance hints at a
collective progression. Friends who press themselves to improve provide support
and constructive advice and inspire one another to move outside their comfort
zones to try a new hobby, embark upon difficult challenges or take an exciting
opportunity. This makes positive peer pressure a mighty aid in individual
growth and success.
Peer pressure
isn’t just a modern problem, it’s a timeless challenge that has taken on new
forms in today’s culture. From social media trends to group dynamics, the
pressures young people face is more pervasive than ever. But the consequences
remain the same: addiction, jail, and lives derailed by bad decisions. As
parents, grandparents, and mentors, it’s our responsibility to guide the next
generation, teaching them the value of independence and critical thinking. By
sharing wisdom and being present, we can help them recognize the dangers of
following the crowd and encourage them to forge their path.
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